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Coach TajDivorce Coaching & Mediation

Divorce Coaching

A steady partner through the decisions of divorce.

Divorce asks you to make many decisions at a time when you may feel least ready to make them. You do not have to work through them alone.

What divorce coaching is

A divorce coach is a thinking partner and guide through the emotional, practical and financial decisions that come with divorce. We look at what matters to you, what your options are and what your next step could be.

Coaching works alongside your attorney or therapist. It never replaces them. I do not give legal advice, and I will encourage you to get it from an attorney when you need it.

Ways we can work together

Discernment coaching

If you are still deciding

We look at the decision from every side and check it against your values and your hopes for your children. If you decide to move forward, we plan how to tell your spouse.

Divorce coaching

If you have decided

You learn how the process works, plan how to talk with your children, get organized for financial disclosure and think through your parenting plan and settlement ideas before you negotiate.

Co-parenting coaching

If you are raising children in two homes

Creating or updating a parenting plan as your children grow, smoother handoffs and communication, introducing new partners and blending families.

Later-in-life divorce coaching

If you are divorcing after 50

Support, retirement accounts, health insurance, housing and downsizing, and adult children who feel caught in the middle, with my financial coaching background behind it.

Heading into mediation with another mediator? Learn about mediation preparation

What we can work on

Deciding whether divorce is right for you
Telling your spouse
Talking with your children
Co-parenting plans
Preparing for meetings with attorneys or a mediator
Rebuilding your identity

How it works

  1. 1. A free 30-minute call. We talk about where you are and whether coaching is a good fit.
  2. 2. Regular 60-minute sessions on Zoom. We meet at your pace, as often as is helpful to you.

My training

I am an ICF Professional Certified Coach (PCC), a credential from the International Coaching Federation that requires accredited training, hundreds of hours of coaching experience and a skills assessment.

  • ICF Professional Certified Coach (PCC)

In my clients' words

"Taj was the architect of my divorce pre-planning and the key to my personal freedom. ... She understood my overwhelm and laid out choices that I was able to make, step by step, session by session. Anyone considering a divorce or separation should call Taj first."
Divorce coaching client
"From the beginning, she offered something I desperately needed: a compassionate, knowledgeable, and steady presence to help me navigate the complexities of divorce. ... Taj has been a trusted guide and an extraordinary source of support."
Divorce coaching client

Shared with permission. Names are left out to protect each client's privacy. Every situation is different.

Would it help to talk it through?

Let's talk. No pressure and no cost.

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